Ciao!

Enjoying my days in Italy! Almost the end of the trip though…

Have a lovely weekend!

Amalfi Coast – 2013

601561_10151890204585090_863585259_n.jpg

Advertisements

La mare

Sometime life is good and sometime life is really good. That day life was really good (even if I got stung by a huge jellyfish)

Amalfi Coast – 2013

1239503_10151890190405090_366494025_n

Honeycomb house

Italian architecture is really pleasing to the eye. The symmetry, the curves, it relaxes me.

Salerno – 2013

1231318_10151890206390090_222043444_n

Out Of the Office

I am off to Italy tomorrow! I will try to post a little while away if the wifi connection allows it.

See you in a few days!

Capri – 2013

1236902_10151890188470090_1195692680_n

Canyon of light

You know that magic moment as a photographer? When everything lines up perfectly? The light, the main subject, the surroundings. When all you have to do is press the button quickly?

Well that’s what happened below, so let’s take a moment to admire the South African sun shining on this beautiful canyon.

South Africa – 2011

313644_10150439234725090_1161084493_n

Couple of boats

Sometimes objects are found in very ‘human’ situation. These two looks like they are just hanging out together. Am I the only one seeing it?

Capri – 2013

1185194_10151890190170090_1067561527_n

Own the world

I love those architectural moments in New York. When the skyscrapers merged with the sky and almost disappear.

New York – 2012

543232_10150762714355090_1717495700_n

Going to Hogwarts

This landscape looks familiar? Well either you drove past it on a road-trip in Scotland or you have seen it in Harry Potter.

This is Glenfinnan viaduct, and it is even more impressive in real life!

Scotland – 2013

310171_10151643605065090_1920964984_n

Fear of flying

Yes you read the title right, I am afraid of flying. Actually let me take that back, I am not afraid, I am TERRIFIED.

Every single time I head to the airport, my anxiety goes out of control, I sweat, I bite my nails, I get teary, I snap at people… I HATE it, I just hate it.

Ironic isn’t? Knowing that 90% of the content I post on this blog has been created thanks to plane rides.

Why am I writing this today? Well I will be flying to Italy in exactly 3 days, 8 hours and 45 minutes… Yes. I am counting the minutes…

Why am I scared? I worked a lot to better understand my phobia. It seems to be a combination of being off the ground, with nothing holding me on to it, and the drama associated with plane crash (horrific headlines, terrifying movies…). It is good to note that I cannot go on very high roller coasters, neither could I ever go bungee-jumping. I am basically afraid of falling, being aware of it and knowing that the outcome will not be a good one.

What makes it worse though is that 1) my true passion is travelling and 2) I hate myself for hating it. You cannot imagine my envy when looking at people falling at sleep before takeoff or giggling through turbulence.

For those of you afraid of flying and reading this, you are probably wondering if there is any magical cure? Well, the answer so far has been ‘no’ for me. I just suffer it.

HOWEVER, there is a few things I do that help me. Because there is one thing I always told myself, I refuse to limit what I do in life because of this phobia!

***Note that some of the item listed below would be considered unhealthy and I am in no mean trying to encourage people to drink or take medication. I am simply sharing what works for me. Also note that I have a very sever fear of flying with genuine panic attacks associated so the measures I am taking are justified for me NOT for someone who is just ‘worried’ when flying***

1464051_10152059737605090_1700375694_n

  • Hypnotherapy – It actually works! My parents who are both doctors explained to me that for it to work you need to find the right therapist. So if you tried without success, try again but with someone different. In my case, as I have been afraid of flying since adolescence, I need a session each year in order to maintain my progress. I wouldn’t say that it cured me but it very much helped me manage my fear. I have a few exercises to do ahead of the flight and during takeoff which help me pretend that I am okay.
  • A glass of wine – My best friend on short flights! I know it sounds wrong but it is the only time I am drinking to forget how I feel, so I do not have a drinking problem. Also when I say ‘A’ glass I really mean one glass or two max! A drink help relax a little, too many will just make you feel miserable, don’t do that.
  • Medications – As my fear can get emotionally unmanageable and with the agreement of my doctor I can take a prescribed calming pill for short flights and a prescribed sleeping pill on long-hauls. This obviously really does help but it should only be done if you have a very serious fear of flying and after seeing a doctor.
  • A compassionate neighbour – Having someone to talk to on flights is the best medicine. Seeing that my neighbour is relaxed and having a very normal conversation help me relax. That is until we hit turbulence, if so, I just cannot talk anymore but still hearing people talking normally helps a little.

So if you are like me just remember that you are not on your own. 🙂

If you are not afraid of flying but sit next to someone nervous, maybe engage in small talks? Tell them a little joke? They will thank you for it, as soon as the wheels touch the ground.

 

Dolce Vita

Counting the days until my next trip to Italy! T-minus 4 days!

Amalfi Coast – 2013

1237018_10151890197000090_1982946385_n